Turns out the truth about who was the problem sits somewhere deeply uncomfortable in the middle, and I had to be honest about both sides.
Letting Go of the Woman You Thought You’d Be
I had a blueprint for who I’d become. Letting her go hurt, but she made room for the woman I actually am.
We Need to Stop Clapping for Basic Decency
He was kind, attentive, and respectful. Bare minimum, yes. But we need to stop acting like decency is rare.
The Importance of Creating a Sacred Self-Care Space
I’ve learned that having a sacred space for self-care isn’t a luxury – it’s essential. Here’s how to create a space just for you.
Lol, Turns Out I Journal After All
Turns out I have been journalling for years without calling it that, and it is nothing like the aesthetic nonsense I was resisting.
The Art of Catastrophising
I am a gold medallist catastrophiser and I finally wrote the guide I wish someone had handed me before my brain went full disaster spiral.
My “Well, It’s Cheaper Than Wine” Theory of Economics
If it costs less than a bottle of wine and improves my life, I’m buying it. That’s my entire economic framework.
Yes, I Do My Gua Sha at the Bus Stop
If I’ve got five spare minutes and a jaw that’s tense, I’m doing my gua sha at the bus stop. Multitasking queen.
How to Heal Without Making It Your Entire Personality
Healing is part of my life, not my whole identity. I refuse to make self-work my entire personality anymore.
Your Sex Drive Is Not a Personality Trait, Babe
Being horny is not a brand. Your sex drive is not your entire personality, no matter what the internet says.
You’re Allowed to Change Your Mind About What You Want
I wanted one life at 25, another at 35, and something softer now. Changing your mind isn’t flaky. It’s growth.
The Pressure to Be an Entrepreneur Is Getting Boring
Not everyone needs a brand, a launch, or a passive income stream. Sometimes I just want a job and a quiet life.
