I am a gold medallist catastrophiser and I finally wrote the guide I wish someone had handed me before my brain went full disaster spiral.
My “Well, It’s Cheaper Than Wine” Theory of Economics
If it costs less than a bottle of wine and improves my life, I’m buying it. That’s my entire economic framework.
Yes, I Do My Gua Sha at the Bus Stop
If I’ve got five spare minutes and a jaw that’s tense, I’m doing my gua sha at the bus stop. Multitasking queen.
How to Heal Without Making It Your Entire Personality
Healing is part of my life, not my whole identity. I refuse to make self-work my entire personality anymore.
Your Sex Drive Is Not a Personality Trait, Babe
Being horny is not a brand. Your sex drive is not your entire personality, no matter what the internet says.
You’re Allowed to Change Your Mind About What You Want
I wanted one life at 25, another at 35, and something softer now. Changing your mind isn’t flaky. It’s growth.
The Pressure to Be an Entrepreneur Is Getting Boring
Not everyone needs a brand, a launch, or a passive income stream. Sometimes I just want a job and a quiet life.
The Forgotten Joy of Red Lipstick
Red lipstick used to feel bold and joyful. I forgot that power for a while, then remembered how alive it makes me feel.
Why Good Skin Should Be Part of Your Style Philosophy
Good skin is my foundation. It lets me dress simply, boldly, or chaotically and still feel put together and confident.
5 Rules for Buying Clothes You’ll Actually Wear
I stopped buying fantasy clothes and started dressing for real life. These rules saved my wardrobe and my bank account.
Embracing “That’s Not My Problem” With Joy
I discovered the joy of “that’s not my problem” and it genuinely changed how much mental energy I waste on things that were never mine to carry.
You Can’t Heal in the Same Patriarchy That Hurt You
The system that hurt us won’t heal us. The patriarchy keeps women small, even as we outpace it. I’m done shrinking.
