Bad dancing in the kitchen with a judgemental black cat watching is somehow the most freeing thing I have done for my mental health.
Why You Always Tip the Nail Lady
I’m breaking down exactly why tipping your nail tech is non-negotiable, and what it really means for the person doing your nails.
The Rage You Swallow Turns Into Autoimmune Disease
The anger women swallow to stay palatable does not disappear. It goes somewhere, and your body keeps an honest record of all of it.
Maybe I Wasn’t The Problem, But Also Maybe I Was
Turns out the truth about who was the problem sits somewhere deeply uncomfortable in the middle, and I had to be honest about both sides.
Letting Go of the Woman You Thought You’d Be
I had a blueprint for who I’d become. Letting her go hurt, but she made room for the woman I actually am.
We Need to Stop Clapping for Basic Decency
He was kind, attentive, and respectful. Bare minimum, yes. But we need to stop acting like decency is rare.
Lol, Turns Out I Journal After All
Turns out I have been journalling for years without calling it that, and it is nothing like the aesthetic nonsense I was resisting.
The Art of Catastrophising
I am a gold medallist catastrophiser and I finally wrote the guide I wish someone had handed me before my brain went full disaster spiral.
My “Well, It’s Cheaper Than Wine” Theory of Economics
If it costs less than a bottle of wine and improves my life, I’m buying it. That’s my entire economic framework.
Yes, I Do My Gua Sha at the Bus Stop
If I’ve got five spare minutes and a jaw that’s tense, I’m doing my gua sha at the bus stop. Multitasking queen.
How to Heal Without Making It Your Entire Personality
Healing is part of my life, not my whole identity. I refuse to make self-work my entire personality anymore.
Your Sex Drive Is Not a Personality Trait, Babe
Being horny is not a brand. Your sex drive is not your entire personality, no matter what the internet says.












