Furniture used to survive three generations. Now I’m scared to move a bookcase twice. Somehow flat-pack became the bloody standard.
It’s Ok to Buy the Thing From SheIn
Not everyone can afford a $100 linen shirt. Buying from Shein doesn’t make you unethical, and pretending it does reeks of privilege.
How to Blend in When You’re Born to Stand Out
Blending in has never come naturally to me, and the older I get the less convinced I am that it was ever actually the goal.
Ten Things That Count as Emotional Regulation
Emotional regulation isn’t always deep breathing and journalling. Sometimes it’s a shower, a snack, a walk, or not sending the text.
The Red Flags We Overlook
I’ve ignored more red flags in friendships than dating. Sometimes loyalty keeps us hanging on long after we should’ve walked away.
Podcast: You Are Not Entitled to an Answer
This episode is about why men you’ve never met aren’t entitled to closure, explanations, or access to your attention on demand.
How to Survive the Australian Summer
Australian summer is less a season and more a personal attack. Here’s how I survive the heat, humidity, storms, and audacity.
Breaking Free from Luteal Laziness
Luteal phase fatigue is real, but there is a difference between honouring your cycle and using it as a reason to disappear entirely.
You Don’t Need a Reason to Quit Drinking
Quitting drinking does not require a rock bottom moment or a label. Sometimes you just decide you are done and that is enough.
How to be Woowoo When You’re Already Delulu
Spirituality and delusion are closer than anyone admits, and I have been navigating that line with varying degrees of success for years.
Change Your Hair, Change Your Life
There is something about changing your hair that shifts something deeper than aesthetics. It is permission, disguised as a haircut.
A Very Practical Guide to Recovering from Burnout
Burnout recovery is not a bubble bath and an early night. This is the practical, unglamorous guide I wish someone had handed me sooner.
