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To Quit or Keep Going: Why Quitting Isn’t Always Failing

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Just over a year ago, I quit my marriage. It took a lot of courage and strength to leave an abusive and controlling relationship after years of planning, and I remember the feeling of guilt when I finally packed my bags and walked out the door.

The guilt of failure, the guilt of letting everyone down, the guilt of quitting.

The fear of quitting had been paralysing, leaving me stuck in a cycle of false hope. I found myself wasting my life, neglecting my happiness and emotions for the sake of avoiding being what I considered a failure. It wasn’t until I realised that this was my life I was wasting on false hope, that I was failing myself, that I was able to break free from this cycle and finally leave.

It took time, but I learnt that quitting isn’t defeat or cowardice. It’s empowering. It’s a form of self-care and showing your love for yourself.

Quitting Isn’t Always Failing.

Though it is important to never give up on life, there are times when we must take a step back, assess what we are trying to achieve and make a decision. Persistence has undeniable value. But sometimes it’s best to realise when you’re getting nowhere and cut your losses so that you can begin again with fresh ideas and optimism.

Time is the most valuable asset we have, and so it is crucial not to waste it. Whether it’s a job, business, relationship or project — don’t let the issue linger on for too long. You will never get back the time you spent dealing with it once it’s passed its “sell-by date”.

To make wise choices, you need to have an objective outlook and understand that making decisions is not a reflection of your personal worth. Instead, keep an open mind and come up with strategies by exploring all the possibilities.

It’s important to remember that success takes time and effort and it doesn’t have to be attained in one go. Don’t feel like giving up is a failure because you’ve invested so much in the issue; sometimes we have to start anew, with renewed focus and determination, as it may lead you closer to success.

Is it Really Time to Quit?

How Do You Feel?

Life is a vibrant mix of emotions and experiences. Every day brings different nuances and it’s beautiful to embrace that diversity.

If the emotions concerning a certain matter are leaning towards the negative, it’s important to assess what’s happening and get an understanding of the scenario. It could be just what you need to turn things around and make progress.

Clarification is Key.

To make well-informed decisions, having reliable data is essential. An effective way to evaluate an issue is by making a pros and cons list which can help you weigh the options and make the right decision.

What do you feel?
When do you feel it?
What you can do about it?

Rather than rushing to any conclusions, it helps to take a balanced approach and have clarity about the issue at hand. While time is an important factor, it isn’t enough for everything. Applying the right strategies can often be much more effective in resolving matters.

It’s important to know what needs to be done and make sure that you always make decisive choices. Don’t wait for things to change until you take the initiative and make a move. Quitting can prove to be beneficial in certain situations, so have the courage to do so when necessary.

For some, the idea of letting go is easy — it’s simply a change in direction. It doesn’t mean there was any kind of failure. On the other hand, others may find it difficult to let go, even if clear evidence suggests that the situation isn’t going to work out.

Quitting Isn’t Failing

Learning how to recognise when the right time to quit something is an essential skill that can help you in so many areas. And to master this skill, practice makes perfect!

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People who are wise and disciplined understand the true importance of seizing opportunities. Quitting can prove to be extremely beneficial. It can give you an increased sense of control over your life. It can also mean more time and money to invest in other pursuits that deserve your attention.

Taking confident and decisive action is the key to achieving great success in the long run.

All time invested in activities and relationships that do not bring you joy, reduce your stress or make you happy is a complete waste. While it might be difficult, letting go of people and things that are not beneficial to you will pay off in the long run.

Making the right decisions is a crucial part of every person’s journey. Quitting at the right time can be a positive adjustment that can help pave the way for future success.

As we journey through difficult times, three paths often emerge that can guide us towards a successful resolution. Looking for these alternatives can put you back in control and help you reach a better outcome.

You have 3 options:


You can live with it.

Many people choose to stay in an uncomfortable or dissatisfying situation. Unfortunately, this usually leads to regret in the long run. It’s better for your mental health and confidence to be honest with yourself and find a way out of a situation that doesn’t make you happy.

You can fix it.

Taking charge of a situation can be effective in resolving issues. If you have control over it, take action and keep progressing. Alternatively, if the problem is out of your hands and cannot be solved, this choice may no longer be viable.

You can quit it.

Don’t be afraid to take charge of your life and make decisions that will move you forward. Leaving the past behind can open up great new opportunities and help you progress in life without the burdens of unnecessary complexity or delays. Rejoice in your freedom and trust that your decisiveness has presented a better future for yourself!

Try not to put a negative spin on quitting! At times, it can be the best path to take for yourself, your family and the life you aspire to have.

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